Our biggest strength lies in our ability to be vulnerable

Our strength especially as females is found in our vulnerabilities, in our power to feel, emote and nurture . Sometimes we think in order to be successful (strong) we need to be in our masculine, and yes we can be moving forwards and climbing the ladder, however this will eventually burn us out as women and leave us feeling lost and empty because we are not in tune with our natural energy. Being successful does not require us to live an inauthentic life, we can embrace our authenticity, in actual fact, our authenticity is our power, our strength because we were all created in the image of God, how could you ever improve on that? So it is our feminine energy, our vulnerability that is our natural strength.

So you might be thinking 'what is being vulnerable'? It is being able to live with a trusting heart (open heart), showing who you truly are, revealing all aspects of ourselves because when we hide these parts we are not being true with our self or the world and so we are blocking our energy and the prosperity flowing our way.

When we are stepping up and consciously leading our life, maybe we are entering a new relationship, work task or starting a business, we need to be organic, real and open because (speaking from experience), when we embrace who we are, (our vulnerabilities) and have not 'tried' to 'be' someone, we have just relaxed into our natural 'being', this is when more miracles can flow into our life (our energy is flowing), it also builds trust and credibility, people just know you are living from a place of your own inner transformation. And the beautiful thing is this energetically gives permission to the others to embrace their vulnerabilities, their Sat Nam (truth) and to love those parts of themselves they have been repressing, hiding, denying and rejecting.

'When we take off the mask and come back to our own authenticity/truth, it transfers onto others, we start a new way of being, we become the catalysts for change.'

How to embrace your vulnerabilities?

1. Be an open hearted person: Live in vulnerability and rawness. We have been conditioned to believe that it is not safe to be vulnerable to others because they may hurt us and also that it is not strong. Our true power comes from our own self love and acceptance and not acceptance from others, when we embody this truth we reduce the fear of 'being seen'.

2. Share your struggles:  Your failures, your blocks and fears - be real, raw and authentic. By simply speaking your truth to someone you trust you can relieve a lot of self created stress. When someone holds space for you and listens, this creates 'dialogue', an energy stream between people where miracles can happen and healing (stress release) can take place in seconds.

3. Step up: Have those difficult conversations when you need to, speak out, stand up for your values and what you believe in. Be a rock for your partner when there's a difficult situation, be a leader in your life, lead your man in areas he is not so strong in, use your intuitive, emotive and vulnerable nature to speak about your feelings.

4. Embrace your weakness: What are they? Accept them, know what they are and understand the world works in polarity (everyone has both strengths and weaknesses), get to know yourself on a deep level. Love and embrace all aspects of yourself so our energy can flow more fluidly, and when our energy flows we become more of a magnet for what we want to attract into our lives.

5. Live your truth every day: Be open, vulnerable with all, speak from your heart and relax in the juicy feeling of just being you. Yogi Bahjan always taught the secret to prosperity is to 'just be you'.

Love Alexis
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